Hands up who lunges their horse and either instantly or within a lap or two, tell them to trot?
Now keep your hands up if you also start trotting your horse within seconds of sitting in the saddle to ride.
Mmmm.
I have spent many years trying to tell people about what is a soft horse or what is a horse like when he feels okay. It’s always been a struggle to put these ideas into concepts that have meaning for people. But when I really break it down to the essentials I realize I am just talking about a horse having a quiet mind.